When couples first get together, everything is new, fun, and exciting. They overlook the little annoying things the other person does. However, after time, the nagging starts, and instead of hearing, “You are so beautiful,” they might hear “Why are you wearing that shirt again?” If this sounds like your relationship, first, the two of you need to sit down and be honest that things have changed. Identify the things each other did in the beginning of the relationship that created the attraction in the first place. Then together, make a commitment to start over. The truth is, both of you will have to work on this. It will not automatically be easy but it is possible. Start by forgiving each other, forgetting the past, and then start over with the flirtation. Focus only on the special things your mate does and relearn to put the small, menial things aside. It will take some time, so be patient.

Wear something that you know your mate will love.  You’re starting over and trying new things, so go for it.