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December 27th, 2009 | 
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Top 6 Tips
Many of the same things that work for online flirting that work for “old fashioned type” of flirting. However, we must agree that most relationships begin with successful flirting. Flirting is an art that requires confidence without being over the top. If you go too far, she will label you “slimy”, but if you don’t go far enough, she will label you “wimpy”. So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language? You have a computerwith internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right? Well, that’s all you need. Let’s get this party started!
1. You gotta have fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is playful.
2. Compliment her…and do it often and sincerely. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment accept it and say “thank you”.
3. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life. You need to convey the “feel good” factor. An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies.
4. Listen…listen…and most importantly, listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Get her to open up and talk about herself. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. Works wonders!
5. Don’t be rude. Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offense if the lady isn’t responding to you. If she isn’t interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach.
6. Send an email after you chat. This is vital and it ranks right up there with sending a thank you note (may we suggest) Hallmark Blank Greeting Cards Half-fold Matte Premium 20 Count
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