Archive for November, 2009

Sometimes as couples become comfortable with each other, kisses can become boring, lame, and routine—you get the message.  If that is the case in your relationship, it’s time to get rid of the motherly pecks and get down with some serious hot, tongue tying, lip smacking, spit swapping kisses!  The next time you and your partner see each other, forget the formal, customary greeting.  Grab each other and kiss like you really mean it.  Now before you slob each down in the middle of the mall, it is assumed that as an adult, you can discern when and where it is appropriate and inappropriate to kiss like this.  Regardless, whenever you kiss your partner, it should be sincere, full of affection, and passionate.  You will notice that your relationship will elevate and you both will feel good about your relationship and each other.

It almost never fails that communication is one of the first things to cease when a couple is experiencing problems.  Many would agree that silence is a lot easier than anger. When a couple is trying to rebuild their relationship, communication is paramount.  However, communication requires both individuals to be humble and learn to let their guard down.  Both individuals must also learn to listen to what it is each other is saying without taking anything too personal.    Within time, both individuals will feel better about communicating with each other and able to exchange words in a mature and amicable manner. Communication is not only verbal.  Why not let your body do the talking for you? Be creative, set the ambiance—red light and all.